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No ComplainingNo complaining Do not be a part of the problem, be a part of the solution. If you make a mistake, try to learn from it, do not blame others.What is complaining anyway? People complain to express their negative feelings of pain, disappointment, displeasure, or bitterness. Complaining doesn’t offer any help though, it only worsen the situation and only make the problem a lot complicated. Let us not forget that our purpose in life is to live it to the fullest, to journey it without hurting other people, and to continue it by accepting everything that it has to offer. We are not here on earth to complain but to praise and to appreciate what is being offer to us. Let’s think about this. When someone doesn’t treat you right, or doesn’t treat you the way you expect him to, do not complain. It will not light up anything. Instead, take a few minutes to think about the situation then ask yourself why he is treating you like that? What have you done? It might be because you also do not treat him right or maybe he doesn’t really know what kind of treatment you really expect from him. Well I think when it comes to dealing with other people the golden rule must be practice. “Do not do unto others what you do not want others do you”. As they say, what you give is what you get. If you show kindness to other people, they will be kind to you in return. The majority of happy people I know practice this principle. You can be one of them if you refrain from complaining and apply the golden rule in your everyday living It is a mere fact that in life we couldn’t avoid problems as well as committing mistakes. After all we are just human and we are not perfect at all. Nobody is perfect anyway. And if ever we might commit mistakes or create problems let us not stand to justify ourselves, let us not blame it to other people around us instead let’s do our best to find solutions to the problem we have created. The best approach to any mistake we did is to just accept it, admit it to ourselves and to the concerned people, and of course to learn from it. Admitting mistakes is not really a hard thing to do. It only takes honesty, humility, courage, and wisdom. You are a human so be humane. Being humane you have to practice honesty; you must have courage, and wisdom. No Complaining I hope everyone will take note of these.
Several Negative Effects of Complaining: • Will only worsen the problem: When a problem arises complaining will only worsen it. So instead, try to listen, to think, and to help by sharing your opinion or sound judgment. Complaining will never contribute any help when it comes to solving a problem. • Annoy other people: When you complain the people around will be annoyed. Some of them might hate you or might think that you’re maybe not a professional person. So be very careful and as much as possible try to avoid complaining. • Waste time and effort: Instead of murmuring, nagging or complaining, make use of your time and effort doing the things you need to get done. Remember, time is very valuable and once it is gone you wouldn’t earn it back again. Your effort is essential too so make use of it for the things which are profitable. • Hurt other people: Without your knowing, your complaining attitude is hurting other people around you, you might be hurting your partner, friends, family, co-workers etc. So it would be great if you refrain from complaining and set a friendly atmosphere wherever you are. • Give a negative impression: If you have the attitude of complaining, you will receive nothing but negative impressions from the people around you and the people you work with. It wouldn’t provide you any benefits at all. So as much as you can, control yourself, avoid complaining, and receive positive impressions from the people who are constantly around you.
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