Setting Your Goals for 2010
by Gtdagenda
Setting Your Goals for 2010
"We are what and where we are because we have first imagined it."
- Donald Curtis
We start the new year with grand promises to ourselves. We list new things that will make our life great when they will be done. As the year approaches to the end, we realize we got a lot done, we kept certainly busy, but somehow what did got done was not on our list, and what was on our list didn't get done. Sounds familiar? Where did we go wrong? How can we do it successfully this time?
Set the Right Goals
Make sure the goal you are working for is something you really want, not just something that sounds good. Maybe you set a goal to get a certain job, but deep down you just don't care that much about that job. It's hard, but you need to dump these type of goals.
You know you set the right goal when it seems impossible, but at the same time you are as excited thinking about the possibility of achieving it, as a child asking for a piece of candy. Good goals stir you emotionally. They even scare you. They challenge you to push beyond your limits.
Prioritize
You don't need a lot of big goals simultaneously. Fewer is better. If you want to succeed in achieving your goals, pick just two or three at a time, and stick with them until they're complete. Try limiting yourself to one major personal goal and one major professional goal at a time.
These main goals should be something that, if you were to
accomplish them this year, would make you feel the year was well spent.
Focus
There can be no compromise between reaching your goal and not reaching your goal. You either reach it or you don't. What's more, usually the two roads that lead to achieving your goals, and to "not" achieving your goals, travel in opposite directions.
If you want to achieve your goals, you must refuse to accept any circumstance that leads to "not" achieving them. So get used to saying NO - a lot.
Chunk it Down
When you have a big goal, it might happen to feel stressed and overwhelmed. This encourages you to procrastinate. The feelings of stress transforms in positive focus when you are working.
It feels bad only when you are not working.
To achieve a big goal, chunk it down into smaller pieces or projects. Then get to work on the first piece. When you've completed all the tasks in the first piece, break off another piece.
No Alibis
It's so easy to make excuses for not working on a big goal.
I don't have the clarity I'd like. I am not as motivated
as I should be. I don't have the perfect tools. But alibis cannot be used for goals. As Napoleon Hill puts it: "The world wants to know only one thing - have you achieved success?"
All of those excuses will go away if you just say "screw it"
and get to work anyway. Start off by tackling some small
piece of your goal, and you'll be too busy to hear the excuses.
In about 15 minutes you'll feel relaxed and productive. And you'll also feel great for making progress toward your goal.
Start with whatever you have at hand, and better tools will be found along the way.
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